How to Attract a Libra Man
He is the guy at the party that everyone is laughing with. He is charming, witty, has funny jokes and is very social. You are watching and thinking there is something about him. His charisma is enigmatic and you are drawn to him. He may not be your regular “type” but you just thought of a few dozen positions you want him to put you in and a few start with that couch he is sitting on. THAT is your Libra man, he just seduced you and you didn’t even see it coming.
You Don’t Seduce a Libra Man – They Seduce You
It has been said, you don’t seduce a Libra man – they seduce you. It is a natural seduction because he is charming and good-humored with everyone. In conversation he can meet people on their own level; a Libra has the ability to see things through your eyes. With that said a Libra man is an excellent conversationalist. He knows a bit about everything and wants to learn more. Libras are very intelligent; they often hide this with their laid back charm so they seem less intimidating. Many people never look past the charm and see just how intelligent a Libra actually is. Those that do look past and discover their wide range of interests and hobbies find themselves captivated even more.
The Libra Man Seeks Perfection in Balance
Libra is ruled by the planet Venus which controls beauty, harmony and attraction. The Libra man can appreciate beauty in everything and more importantly the beauty of a potential mate. He also seeks perfection in balance. This means he always seems to be on the search for the perfect mate. Unfortunately, that does not exist… or does it in you? Do you have an adventurous side? Are you both sexy and intelligent? Well if you wouldn’t mind the occasional walk on the wild side as you turn heads in that gorgeous black dress then step up to plate and dazzle him with your knowledge of literature and music.
Stimulate His Senses
To make a Libra man like you and want you, you have to have good taste and well… being a total knockout wouldn’t hurt either. He likes all his senses stimulated but leave a little to be desired. Do not give a Libra man insight into everything about you early on. Dress well but reveal just enough skin and don’t tell every funny childhood story you have. Make him want to know and see more. You will need to become his friend first before moving towards a romantic relationship with him. Since he already has plenty of friends, you will need to stand out from the rest.
Be a Good Listener and Conversationalist
The first step is to engage him in conversation about topics he loves, including himself. Being a good listener and conversationalist as well as indulging him in his crazy escapades will make him want you.
Do not be surprised if he asks you out. If he doesn’t, ask him out and prepare for a good night. As far the place and setting, keep your standards high. There should be a level of quality about your restaurant of choice. He would love nothing else than to have a gorgeous date on his arm while indulging in his desire for romantic dinners and meaningful conversation. On your date, create an atmosphere where you forget the world around you. Speak softly, focus on him and spend hours talking about everything and anything. A Libra male who is interested will want to discuss everything with you. He will become more charming and desirable as the night wears on… do try to make through dinner before you ravish him for dessert. Bonus points if you can at least make out of the restaurant and into the car before taking him.
Win Over Those Closest to Him
Expect a relationship out of a Libra man, not just sex. Know that once you cross the line from friend to lover you will have to win over those closest to him. Whether that is his best friend or his brother, their opinion of you matters just as much as his. Do not worry; just be the person that he fell for. The fact that he fell for you is a feat in and of itself. Libras do not have time for nor desire, anything other than the best.
Use this knowledge to boost your confidence and to shine. Once you pass the test, as we knew you would, it is smooth sailing from here.
Give and Take
While they really love themselves, they in turn crave to be loved. Make sure your time together in and out the bedroom is give and take. As their partner do not hold back in showing your love toward them. Libra men adore romance and seduction and know how to please and tease. They can be sexually adventurous so if you want to try something, he will probably be up for it. They tend to prefer a partner who takes the initiative and but who is prepared to worship them. Put all your attention into foreplay, be playful and naughty and let him drive it home. Yes he is romantic in bed but he is also erotic. There is an edge to his love making that is damn near addicting. Make no doubt, the Libra man will take care of your needs.
Be Confident and Supportive
The attention of a male Libra goes to someone who is not afraid to get what they want. Being honest and confident with a sensitive and caring twist is what will attract him to you. The Libra man needs someone who can give them feedback and support. They often need reassurance that they are just as sexy as they think they are. A partner who can bring their Libra to a balanced state causing them to feel rather than think, will be rewarded with a grateful and passionate lover. A person who is able to show their intelligence and sexual self without inhibitions is what turns on and keeps a Libra man. You love being addicted to him and he loves it too. He is the one you didn’t see coming but oh you are so glad he came.