Scorpio as a Husband: Scorpio Men in Marriage

The Scorpio Husband

There is only one other sign outside of the three usual fire signs of Aries, Sagittarius and Leo that is included into the exclusive club, and that sign is Scorpio. Though technically a water sign and therefore endowed with the sensitivity, artistry and emotionality of one born under such a sign, Scorpios (and in particular Scorpio men) also embody fire in their behavior and personality.

Every girl’s had a crush on a Scorpio man at some point, whether they realize it or not. He’s the dark-eyed guy with the intense gaze, the easy smile, and the laidback approach to life that throws your hormones in a frenzy. His most attractive feature is his confidence, which you can recognize easily as being a facade, because underneath it, he’s insecure and vulnerable. It’s what makes him so appealing is that he’s the classic bad-boy, with the soft heart.

Traits of a Scorpio Husband

The Scorpio man will talk passionately about things, and yet make it seem like he’s unaffected by them. He’ll smoke a cigarette every half hour, but assure you that he’s not addicted—and what’s more, you’ll believe him. He’ll flirt with you convincingly, but then not return your calls. It’s why so many women can never resist his charm, because he invented the game, and he plays it better than anyone else.

It’s why you married him, isn’t it? He floored you with that sweet yet mischievous smile, the one that tugged at your heartstrings and made your palms sweat at the same time. Well, get used to being uncomfortable around him, because that’s his biggest strength.

Scorpio men never become dull, not even after forty years of marriage. He’s brimming with secrets, with untold passions and yet-to-confess lies, and you won’t get to them all, even if you both last another forty years.

For all their sex appeal and attractiveness, Scorpio men aren’t tailor-made husbands. They don’t enjoy commitment, and don’t find the idea of any kind of schedule or restraint appealing. That’s not to say that they’re free-spirited like the Aquarian or the Sagittarian, but they just don’t like anyone encroaching on their freedom.

What Scorpio Husbands Like

See, the Scorpio husband wants to be the boss, and won’t stand for anyone telling him what to do or how to do it. For all his likeability and charm, he has a stinging temper that can rattle the bravest, and the best way to stir it is to deny him his will. If you’re going to make marriage work with the Scorpio male, then you’re going to have to give him his space.

He’ll flirt with every woman he meets, but not sleep with any of them. In fact, forget cheating; after he’s spent an afternoon sitting with you and your girlfriends, flirtatiously interacting with every one of them, ask him for one of their names, and he’ll look at you dumb-founded. Ask him to describe any of them, and again he’ll be stumped. It’s not them he likes, it’s their attention. He knows where his attention-seeking ends, and where his love for you begins, and it’s the latter that means everything to him.

Romance and Passion

He is romance-personified, is the most passionate man you’ll find, the kind that will curl your toes by night, be your best friend you by day, and promise you the world and mean it.

Remember how on your first date he seized your wrist, pulled you into him and kissed you so passionately that your mind went blank? For most men that’s their high point. For a Scorpio man, it’s just the beginning.

Sometimes his strong sense of passion will turn to an unusually short temper if you don’t reciprocate, and such Scorpio men lose their charm to bitterness. But for the most part he’s a likeable, friendly guy, and will effortlessly schmooze your family, friends, hairstylist, pastor or whoever else you have in your life.

In fact, if for some reason the marriage doesn’t work, or the two of you separate, then don’t expect to get much sympathy, even from your closest friends. He is flawless at appearing faultless, and even if the reason your marriage turned south is that he slept with your sister (a far-fetched but not impossible scenario with the Scorpio male), then you’ll still wind up being blamed.

He has a thirst for attention, a hunger for success and an absolute craving for sex. But his soul mate is his air, and he would die without you long before he suffers from any of those other deficiencies. Love him back, because that won’t be hard to do. And remember that you’re a lucky woman, because not many have the chance to fall for a bad boy and marry him, too.